OVER EXPECTATIONS 

It's human nature to rely on the people surrounding us, that is not uncommon but things goes strange when the term 'rely' is replaced by 'over expectations'. Expectation is an outcome of inputs that we have given for the results whereas over expectation is an abstract awaiting for miracles to happen in spite of zero input. Everyone of us knows the Newton's third law 'every action has equal and opposite reaction'. When actually you have toiled for some results, it comes out with same intensity and as a result we get satisfactory. But in the case if we have not spent enough energy for getting a desired outcome and still waiting to get an elephant out of hen's egg, its a foolishness. Definitely it is going to dis motivate for your goals. Keep a weighing balance inspired approach in your life. On one plate you are placing your hard work and proportionately you will get the results. It's damn easy in such a way to avoid over expectations. Over expecting from ourselves is a crime then what about over expecting from others. Certainly I shall call it the height of foolishness. 

We generally mislead sympathy of some people as affection and dreaming about their assistance or favors. And when things turn opposite we feel break down. As a result of such heart break, we loses our working stamina and consequently it leads to failures. Generally we blame this failure as a misfortune created by the person from whom we expected and further it leads to ruining of the relations. So it's a vicious cycle of emotions. Okay, if over expectations have such a disappointing results, why do we opt for it. The reason behind it is a child inside us and that one is so lazy to carry out his own work, he wanna rely on mommy for tying his shoe lace. Are you grown up, if yes then don't repeat this mistake , tie your shoe lace yourself. You will fail once, twice or thrice but at fourth chance definitely you shall succeed. Now you don't need mamma :D. 

Next time when you feel like over expecting from someone, remember that the person too have his own sort of problem. He is probably struggling more than you, so try to give him his personal space to deal with. It shall never worsen your relations rather giving a little gap will enhance your  understanding.

That's all for today, but stay tuned there are more upcoming lessons I wanna share with my lovely readers.

Have a nice and fruitful day.