HEIGHT OF TOLERANCE

Nature has awarded woman with a huge spectrum of qualities, the most precious one is tolerance. No body could imagine the pain every woman swallow like a sugar everyday at emotional level, especially when her supporting arms are weak, She don't need someone's financial aid, she is just carving for emotional understanding, and if someone could not even understand her quench, it is the fault of nature that it co created wrong match for her. STILL SHE SHALL CONTINUE BEARING ALL THE PAIN AND WEAR A FAKE SMILE EVERY MORNING AND FLAUNT HER CHARMING SHEEN ON THE FACE OF UNDESERVING CREATURES.

PAIN MAKES US STRONGER, TEARS MAKES US WISER , UNDUE ADVANTAGE OF YOU TAKEN BY PEOPLE IS NOT YOUR MISFORTUNE BUT ITS  A STEP TOWARD SELF REALIZATION. THANKS THEM :D

 a good heart: means You help too much, you trust too much, you give too much, you love too much and it always seems like you’re  the one who gets hurt the most.

REINVENT FEMININITY

Be a woman who need not to beg others to take care of you, rather people must beg you for your divine presence in their life.

DESIRE VS REQUIREMENT

An age old argument for human has been a topic 'desire'. It is not taught at any stage of life, but acquired as we come across worldly attachments. It was a toy when we were child and now it has extended it's limits so far. Desire is a temptation which arises when we fails to balance our requirements. So, it is must to understand the difference between requirement and desire. Wishing for a piece of bread and butter when hungry is requirement , whereas wishing for a dessert after meal is desire. Desire may curb our level of humanity, as it is selfish one. It doesn't look into exact scenario, rather than quenching it's own demands. 

By the way it is contradictory that human civilization has built its science,art and technology based empire on the able guidance of desire to lead better life. But, inventions are always the consequence of needs. So, it may be said that invention of telephone by Graham Bell was a consequence of need, whereas eye candies smart phone now a days in market are consequence of desire to achieve more and more sophisticated & lethargic life. Every need beyond it's limit transforms into desire. And when desire comes into play, it expands day after day and at last leading to that big bang.

Human emotions are always a form of desires, that's why they lead to pain in odd conditions. A motherly affection toward child is a requirement since the new one has to be introduced to love and emotions, but the same child transforms his acquired emotions into desire when he starts neglecting his needs. So, in order to avoid desires, it's essential to correctly value our needs. Once the desire build nest in our mind, it is hard to evacuate that. So, prevention is better than cure.

HOPE YOU STARTED REALIZING THE NEEDS.

ISOLATED ONE

Isolation is generally believed to bring out the more intellectual side of us, only and only if accompanied by control over our perceptions. Isolation may enlighten us or may even ruin. But what about such a life where you don't find life around you and feeling stuck in a zombie world. Everyone just want us to be perfect at work and toil to starve. Isolation need not to be a term when we are alone but it may also be a situation when in spite of living in a crowded place you find no one able to understand us. Reckless professional expectations, trying to stretch our capacities in foolish way, over expectations at results, greed to achieve more and more etc have made us isolated even in the crowd. Humble feelings and relations are the wonder tonic for such complexions. An unconditional love, warm hug this is what all we need to keep loneliness at bay. Hectic race for fame has made human a machine constantly squeezing his talents to fetch glory. But a balanced approach for life truly bring positive side of life. We are not ready to sacrifice for our loved ones, just all we need is to thrive for the success. Try doing little sacrifices and later you will find your world within a single person. That is the stage where even presence of your loved one will make you feel heaven  in the hell.

There by it may be concluded that loneliness is just a state of mind rather than a physical thing. Either we must create a mind set up dedicated to our faith/love or engage yourself busy in social life. The second option will give you an instant but temporary satisfaction. So, better we try dedicating our self to the script less language (love) and see our world in their smile.

SHOULD I?

Nature has designed we humans to explore her cryptic features. So, curiosity is the part and parcel of us. Once a question knocks our mind, we become curious and impatient for the things to be known. And I strongly believe that we must explore for getting the answers. But most of us have an another trait which commands us 'why should I ?'. That's the point where we sink the genius within us. Do not suppress your curiosity, but let it ignite the dark chambers within our mind and enlighten knowledge. In fact curiosity is the driving force which made us human diversify from other ordinary life forms. The history is evident that whenever curiosity or thirst for knowing new things have arisen, there bloomed a big bang called 'revolution'. 

That's the reason why sailors sailed out of the odd conditions and reached unknown lands which led to construction of unified globe. Curious brains in past dared exploring myths in new ways and led to scientific discoveries. They never thought 'why should I pioneer this uncertain adventure' and just think what would be consequences if they ever thought like this. Well, it's human nature to flee away the uncertain things that are supposed to cause danger to existence. But, again I would remind the readers 'darr ke aage jeet hai' (beyond fear lies victory) and it's my damn favorite punch line derived from a soft drink commercial. Those pioneering sailors and scientists belonged that specific trait who believe in 'darr ke aage jeet hai'. We must thank them everyday for such a brave decisions. The fuel which energized them against the hidden danger was 'curiosity' and it's great to tame the curiosity within us rather than neglecting it. It is not mandatory that only a genius can be a scientist or an achiever, but the trait which is more important is curiosity. 

So, next time when any question hit your mind, don't kick it away rather nourish it and explore for the answer.